Sunday, November 20, 2011

Indian Marriage A big Drama

As we all know marriage is most remembered part of our life. Specially indian marriages are world known for their traditions and customs. Indian marriages are normally arranged means apart from groom and bride all knows each  other very well.
It is not an easy task to search a bride or groom. these marriage are happen after a lot of filteration .
First of all your religion  creates a boundry then that specific caste is choosen,  as it shows that the bride will have a better understanding our rituals.You also must not belong to same gotra (an inner subdivison of caste)
otherwise they will treated as sister-brother. Now you get a list of handful wierd choices, here relatives and close friends play a vital role of intermediater . These guys have a very good reason of participating in forming relationship as it helps them to create social image and tasting mouth watering dishes every weekend in peak time.The most interesting thing about them that they know hardly single percent about bride or groom , but when they start talking it seems that they know them more than their parent. They will find many unlinked relation associated with you.
 If every thing go well upto this stage then family background and their current positioned are investigated to commensurate for a first round of talk. In these type conversation both sides try to count their high positions holding and thier ancestral records but always miss to talk about couple choices and  interest. Now the role of Pundits come from both sided to verify couples match is possible or not by checking their birth date time.  if they succeed then two life are ready to devast their life if none of them is tolerent or mature.These is ugly  but true picture of almost all arranged marriages happening in India.